Wednesday, October 9, 2024

September

 I was not prepared for September. We went from a summer of relative freedom, to family vacation, to school, soccer, choir, volleyball, gymnastics, piano and more. But there was so much good this month that I don't want to forget. 
Viv loves playing the "pawano" and even is particular about what book she uses each time and turns the pages to new songs as she plays. Of course there is singing along as well. 
"His Majesty King Asa's private fort" There are lots of forts being made most days. 
We got to have Bethany at our house on her birthday. It was so fun to spoil her a little. She's a favorite of ours. 
Mariah got to go to a football game and sit with friends
We finally got to go geode hunting. It was so interesting to see what could be found inside these round ugly rocks. The older kids had a blast digging around and trying to find treasures. 
Vivi and Eliza didn't last long on the geode hunt, instead they spent most of their time trying to "catch fish" at the creek. Their shoes and pants were only completely soaked by the end. 
This year for Chet's birthday he requested ice skating. We were going to be in Iowa City the week before, so after soccer games we went to the rink. Chet and Austin were fearless and fell a lot but had a blast. 

Asa was happy to be with dad until he saw me...then it wasn't so fun for him anymore.

Mariah was more cautious but by the end she was racing around with her brothers. 
Vivi was happy to just sit on the seal and Eliza took turns pushing her.
 
After skating Tanner left to get a tire replaced on our car so I decided to take the kids shoe shopping...in the mall...just me...Vivi refused to wear the too small shoes she insisted on wearing that day so by that point she was barefoot. We stopped off in H&M to grab her some shoes and then got the big kids some shoes at Scheels. I won't be doing that again for a long time. 
That night we dropped the kids off at the Newtons and we got to have a dinner with the other Bishops and their wives in the Stake. It was so nice to have some uninterrupted adult conversation. 

We have enjoyed the snacks from around the world subscription that I got for Tanner at Christmas. We especially liked the "bum cheeks" gummies from South Korea. They made me giggle every time. 

We had a special visitor at our house. The kids hadn't been getting as many eggs for a few days and then one morning Mariah came back to the house and said there was an adolescent possum in the coop. Tanner took it out to some trees and then the next day it was behind our garbage can. I picked it up and immediately fell in love. He was so ugly he was cute...those wrinkled ears, snout, rat tail...all of it. But after googling whether you can keep a possum as a pet in Iowa (you can't), we took Harry down to our timber. Later that night he was back up at our house because he loved us so much. But after putting him in another tree by our house we haven't seen him since. Hopefully all is well with Harry. 

Mariah decided she would have Chet build his own birthday present from her. She gave him the instructions but didn't tell him what it was and he was in heaven. When he finished, she filled it with candy she had been saving for months and it was a candy dispenser. 
Austin designed his own wrapping paper for Chet. He was excited to get him an unresponsive yoyo. 
Months earlier Chet had told me that he loved canned mandarin oranges so much and that he would be thrilled to get it for his birthday. Eliza did just that and he was as happy as he said he would be. 
Chet requested French Toast for breakfast and was a good sport about me leaving to get Kathleen and Esther at the airport. They watched a movie at home so he was pretty happy about that. 
Chet knew exactly how he wanted his birthday cake design to be. He made the fishing pole with a twig and some wire and it was so intricate. Besides me helping with the frosting he did most of the cake himself. 
Esther played Happy Birthday on the violin while we all sang along which made it fun. 
On Saturday Tanner took the youth on a temple trip so I did soccer by myself. We survived by eating lots of fun snacks and playing in the wagon. Austin played in three games so he was pretty tuckered out by the drive home. 
Tanner and Mariah found Kathleen and Esther in Nauvoo. The next day we went to the Hilton's for dinner and to spend more time with Kathleen and Esther. We're so glad they decided to come out for a visit. Who's coming next? 

Our Chet Man

Chet is growing like a weed and maturing right along with that growth. We were excited to celebrate all the change he has experienced in the past year. 

1. What do you like most about yourself? 
I try to do my best in sports and be fair. 
2. What do you think your future job will be? 
Is it hope or think? I'm not sure exactly about jobs but I want to have a job where I can be home a lot and also get good money. (Don't we all...I'm thinking he might need to marry an heiress) 
3. What do you love to eat? 
Food. If you want me to be more specific, Costco Pizza, that's what sounds so good right now. And white sauce noodles, spaghetti is going down on my list because I've had it a lot lately. 
4. How do you like to spend your time? 
Reading and playing sports. 
5. What are you good at? 
I feel like I'm good at sports and maybe being a friend. 
6. Who are your best friends and why do you like each other? 
My family because of all they do for me, and because they're my family. 
7. Who is someone you look up to? 
My cousin Hiram, he is so kind to his siblings and tries to be his best. And my dad because of the same reasons and because he's a hard worker. 
8. What makes you sad? 
People being punks and school. (While school is not his favorite, he is so diligent in getting it done each day, even if his attitude isn't the best. 
9. What is your favorite outfit to wear? 
Comfy pants/shorts and a comfy shirt. 
10. What makes you really annoyed? 
When I feel like I'm doing a lot more work than everyone. 
11. What makes you feel proud? 
When I do a job really good. 
12. What makes you happy? 
Sports and when someone tells me I did a good job. 
I never see him happier then when he has caught a fish or some other critter. 
13. Which of your nicknames do you like the most? 
Cheddars is the only one I have. After asking if he liked it he said, "sure".  
14. What's the best thing that's happened to you lately? 
Soccer and I'm excited for hockey in the shop to start soon. 
15. What do you do when you feel sad? 
I go in my room and I like doing origami and making stuff to calm me down. 
Chet loves having Josie in his bed with him. She isn't always a fan and it's pretty entertaining to watch her avoid him at bedtime. 
16. What's your favorite thing to do with mom? 
I like to talk with you. 
Chet is a talker. I now understand what my mom felt when I was a child, bless her. 
17. What's your favorite thing to do with dad? 
I like to work with him. 
18. What's your favorite thing to do with Mariah? 
I like to play sports and I like it when she reads to me.  
19. What's your favorite thing to do with Austin? 
Sports and making things with him. 
These boys are best buds. Chet keeps them busy all day long and Austin is happy to go along with whatever Chet has planned, for the most part. 

20. What's your favorite thing to do with Eliza? 
Jump on the tramp with her. 

21. What's your favorite thing to do with Vivi? 
Listen to her laugh. (It is so fun to have older kids that can find the humor in the things their younger siblings say.)
They were being "Lamanites" in a war movie.  
22. What's your favorite thing to do with Asa? 
Throw the ball with him and listen to him laugh too. 
23. What do you want to be when you grow up? 
I want to be a dad and I also think it would be fun to do engineering, not for a full on job, but just for fun. 

I feel like it's about every other month that he informs me he has outgrown his shoes...

Chet is getting quite the sense of humor and it's fun to laugh with him at all the funny things he says/does. 

"Austin will get my handy downs (he meant hand me downs, but has always thought that was how you said it, his way is a lot more fun to say.)"

Eliza: I think everyone has friends, even bugs.
Me: yeah? They have good buddies?
Chet: You mean good buggies 

Chet is so good at seeing needs and filling them. The other day he and Austin wanted to earn some money so I told them they could clean under the deck. I came home to the garage cleaned out too. Chet said I didn't have to pay them for that, he just saw that it needed to be done. If there's ever a dead branch that needs to be cut down Chet is on it. 

He is so good at helping me with dinner or with watching his siblings while I drive Mariah to choir or volleyball practice. 

Chet is so consistent, he wakes up each morning and reads his scriptures and then practices his piano. He is good at remembering whose turn it is to feed the chickens and what chore each of them are supposed to do. At times he gets overwhelmed with everyone relying on him to know who does what...I know his pain, that mental load can get heavy. 
Chet still loves riding horses and sports make him so happy (if you couldn't tell from the interview). 

It has been so fun to see Chet grow into the fun, hardworking, dedicated, nurturing boy that he is. Can't wait to see the change he'll make this year.