Thursday, May 1, 2025

April

I started out April with a good ol' April Fools Joke. I put cotton balls in muffins, just like my Grandma Young used to do. It didn't work very well on most of the kids ( I should have put batter in the bottom of the pan and then the cotton ball so it wouldn't show on the bottom), but I did get Chet just a little. He thought it was mold and thats why he has a look of horror on his face. I took this screenshot from the video. It still makes me laugh. Totally worth it. 

We celebrated Mariah's birthday early because we were planning on being at the cousins' on her actual birthday. It is always my favorite to see how excited the kids are to give their gifts on birthdays. 
The boys had fun trying on Mariah's new pajamas. Goofballs is what they are...
Tanner and I had planned on going on a little overnight stay for our 14 year anniversary while the kids were at the Hilton's. But then Asa woke up with a high fever the day of. If that isn't the epitome of 14 years of marriage, I don't know what is. But that doesn't change our love for each other. I love how we have grown over the years together. This life is so good and I am so grateful we decided to do it together. 
The kids handled our change of plans well and the girls even helped with some yard work. Mariah made her own birthday dessert (peanut butter brownies) and she got to watch a birthday movie (Little Women). 
We went down to the cousins for conference and everyone was so excited to celebrate Mariah.
And Tanner! He waited patiently for his birthday dessert of strawberry shortcake. He got his gift a few days late because he had unknowingly picked the package up off the porch and hid it in the closet, thinking it was a gift for Mariah, and promptly forgot about it. I got him his old black and white checked vans, just like the ones he had in elementary school. Now we just need to challenge him to a kickball game. 
We had a great time at the cousins over conference even with some sickness. We just swapped illnesses and called it good. 
Austin and Eliza got to go to a pottery class and make some containers. Now they are just anxiously awaiting to see how they held up in the kiln. Fingers crossed! 
Asa had a run in with our rooster Henry. Chet came to his rescue and we said goodbye to mean ol' Henry. 
We kicked off Holy Week with a Palm Sunday celebration. Vivi was insistent that she be Jesus and she was very reverent during the triumphal entry, not even bouncing her donkey. 
Just a few days after the demise of Henry, his chicks hatched! I was so worried that this wouldn't work so we were so excited to have four of the nine eggs hatch. Two never developed, and then three more never got past the blood vessel stage. But it was such a special thing to be able to see these brand new little chicks. 
Some of us even got to watch a couple hatch. We're excited to do it again next year, but we'll probably buy fertilized eggs and hopefully that will increase our odds of hatching. Now here's hoping we don't get any Henry Juniors, because we don't need another grumpy attack rooster. 
We tried to make oil lamps, and were humbled. Those were a lot harder than expected. 
Beatrice seemed to be struggling and I thought she might be egg bound so we gave her a nice soak in our bath. Never again...the smell...not good. 
She still walks like a penguin, but it's been a couple weeks and she still gets around. I'm done trying to be a chicken vet. Apparently this was the month of the chicken: rooster attacks, chicks, chicken baths. 
Mariah had her last choir concert. 
Big brother and baby brother. 
We decorated eggs...in this economy...we're just bougie. 
Tanner designed this after a funny Voxer moment with my sisters. I was trying to tell Tiffany that "in the grand scheme of things, no one is going to care if the eggs are peeled perfectly." But while I went to say that, Vivi was telling me over and over that she was a magical kitty, wanting me to repeat it back to her. So what I ended up telling my sister was, "In the grand scheme of things you are a magical kitty." and then continued what I meant to say and wouldn't have even realized what I said if Amanda hadn't pointed it out. Children make us sound like crazy people. Tell me I'm wrong. And yes, there is a misspelling, apparently AI isn't so good with spelling things sometimes. 
We did the community Easter Egg Hunt and I didn't lose anyone. Success! Also, Chet got $32...the boy has the best luck. Now hoping they don't all end up with cavities from all the suckers. 
Tanner and Mariah picked up Natalie that day and we had our Passover meal. This was probably our calmest one yet.
And then they lit their lamps and they worked! They burned for quite a while too. 
Easter morning we had to hustle to get to church early so I didn't get any pictures. But our Sacrament meeting was so special. There were so many beautiful musical numbers and Tanner shared a special Easter message. 
We had a big dinner with the Hiltons, Natalie and a friend from church. Mariah put together the Easter egg scavenger hunt and I was happy to pass the baton. 
I am so grateful for the Easter season and the reminder of the love our Savior has for us. I always have this image in my mind for how our Easter week will go, but there are always things that don't happen, or don't go right. But that actually is a perfect analogy for life. Thankfully because of our Savior, we can try again and keep going. 
Vivi was loving the mud one afternoon when a big thunderclap made her hustle inside real quick, screaming to Chet to "run!" as she ran inside. I loved the muddy handprint she left. But now she keeps talking about thunder and storms and how they are not her favorite. 
We've been able to spend a lot of time with the cousins which has been fun. 
I was feeling a little guilty about forgetting a homeschool fishing trip, so we trooped down to the pond to try our luck. Chet had a bite right when he dropped his hook in, but it got away and must have told all his friends to look out because we didn't get any more bites. But it was fun to be outside and enjoying the warm weather. 
The chicks are growing so fast! 
Their names according to Vivi are, Banana, Cherry, Carrot, and Apple.
I helped with activity days one night and Asa was really happy and messy with the dessert. He clutched that little pudding cup the rest of the night. 
Mariah and Chet both performed in a talent show and did great. Chet played Chariots of Fire but in the program it said he would be playing, "Charitos of Fire" which made us giggle. I don't know what a charito is, but it sounds delicious. Mariah didn't wear her sunglasses and feather boa in the dress rehearsal so there was a little confusion at the beginning of her song (Elton John's Your Song) because she couldn't see the keyboard with the sunglasses. But once she adjusted she kept on playing and even after some major microphone feedback, she powered through and did so well. We are so proud of those kids and their willingness to perform in front of people. That takes a bravery I don't have. 
Aunt Nattie helped paint some more of the rock wall and all the kids got a chance to paint. 
Vivi was so tickled with her bun; after I clipped her hair up she had to run and show her dad and then delightedly said, "I'm a mom!". Maybe I should branch out on my hairstyles a little. 
Happy artists. 
The cousins came up for another overnight stay and Vivi was delighted to be matching with Elsie. 
We have loved having Natalie here for two weeks. 
Everyone wanted to let her practice ultrasound on them, even Asa. 
This boy...thinks he's a big boy that can do everything his siblings do. 
And one more chick pic, just to stick with the theme. Pretty sure this is Banana, but I'll have to double check with Vivi. 

A Teenager?!

I have a teenager; I'm not sure how that can be possible considering I was just a teenager myself a couple years ago...
Mariah has changed so much in the past year and she was really excited to do her birthday interview. 
1. What do you like most about yourself? 
I'm kind and I'm fun to be around. 
2. What do you think your future job will be? 
Orthodontics and I want to write a book. And I'll be a mother of course. 
3. What do you love to eat? 
Homemade gouda mac and cheese and homemade pizza. 
Mariah loves food, unless she doesn't and then she acts like death is coming if we, heaven forbid, have spaghetti or zucchini...
4. How do you like to spend your time? 
Reading, playing with siblings and singing. 
5. What are you good at? 
I think I'm good at playing the piano and singing. I think I'm good at making friends too. 
6. Who are your best friends and why do you like each other? 
Definitely my immediate family but also my extended family. Anni and Miri are the closest cousins to me and we are really close.  
Miri wasn't feeling well when this picture was taken, but I'm so grateful Mariah has her cousins that live close by. 
7. Who is someone you look up to? 
My mom and my dad and my grandparents. In different ways I look up to my younger siblings. Some of the things they do are really inspiring. 
8. What makes you sad? 
Someone hurting or being unkind to someone else. 
9. What is your favorite outfit to wear? 
Either my baggy jeans with my green shirt or my black tennis skirt with any of my shirts. 
I love this picture: her big ol' pink bow, skirt, and rainboots. Fashion...Also, ticks. 
10. What makes you really annoyed? 
Younger siblings telling me what to do and not coming up with any ideas for what I'm writing or not being able to play a piano piece right. 
11. What makes you feel proud? 
Accomplishing something, like a piece of art or a song. And performing for other people. 
12. What makes you happy? 
Being with family
13. Which of your nicknames do you like the most? 
I don't really have a nickname, I go by Mariah. 
14. What's the best thing thats happened to you lately? 
Performing in my local community talent show and playing a piece that I arranged all by myself while singing as well. 
I didn't get a picture of Mariah on the day of her performance, but here she is trying on her Elton John glasses. It is one of my favorite things watching her perform, she has a confidence that is so amazing. 
15. What do you do when you feel sad? 
Read a book, spend time with a sibling or with my dog. 
This girl loves her dog. We do not love the high voice she does for the pup, but Josie seems to tolerate it. 
16. What's your favorite thing to do with mom? 
Sometimes we end up reading the same book together and we end up talking about the book we read. I like when she drives me to choir and we get to talk about things. 
17. What's your favorite thing to do with dad? 
Drive in the car with him to activities and listen to an audiobook together. I also like when he tries to tease me and I actually stand up for myself and we banter. 
18. What's your favorite thing to do with Chet? 
I like to play card games and board games and jump on the tramp with him. He's actually big enough that I can get bounced with him. 
19. What's your favorite thing to do with Austin? 
Read to him. Sometimes we play a game where we both sit in hammocks and swing really fast and it makes us laugh really hard. We also play a hand clap game and it's fun to see how fast we can get.  
20. What's your favorite thing to do with Eliza? 
I like to play with toys with her and sometimes I paint her nails for her and thats fun. 
21. What's your favorite thing to do with Vivi? 
She likes to show me things that she has done or accomplished and we talk about it together. 
I love watching the way these girls interact. Mariah is so patient and often comes up with fun things to do with her sisters. 
22. What's your favorite thing to do with Asa? 
I like to make him laugh. I give him piggy backs and shoulder rides. It's fun to figure out what he is trying to say and have conversations with him. 
23. What kind of person do you want to be when you grow up? 
Someone people want to be around. Someone who can relate to everyone and is always kind to everyone. 
This girl is gentle, kind, hilarious, a hard worker, and just a joy to be around. We are so blessed to have her as the oldest.
And in honor of her becoming a teenager, here are a couple selfies. I felt it was fitting. We love our Mariah so very much! 

Monday, April 7, 2025

March

We started the month off with Chet going to state in archery. We had sickness in the house and Chet was so worried he was going to get sick and not be able to go. He went to bed early the night before the tournament, but after a couple hours he came out of his room in his uniform. He had a big ol' grin on his face and said, "I'm not sick!" After I asked him why he had only slept a couple hours he got a confused look on his face. That's when we realized he thought that he had slept all night and was ready to go. We had a good laugh and he went right back to bed. He woke up the next morning not feeling great, but he still went and did alright. It was a great experience for him and we're grateful for all the coaches who put so much time into helping these kids. 
 
We had some warm days and some not so warm days in March. But we tried to soak up the sunshine whenever it was out. 
Checking out the calves down the street is always a high light of Spring. The daffodils are another favorite. 
 
We moved around rooms and Asa is now sleeping with Eliza and Vivi. He loves climbing up these shelves...and climbing up on the top bunk and giving me heart attacks as he stands teetering at the edge of the bed. He's only fallen off once and luckily he landed on the bed below. This boy...
We went down to the cousins hoping to pick up a cabinet they got for us at Ikea, but decided it wouldn't fit so well in our van and decided to wait for when they came up to our house with their big van. But it was fun to spend the evening with each other. 
Tanner made these shamrock peanut butter rice krispies. He needed to redeem himself after Vivi's birthday cake...and he did. Ten points for presentation and taste.  
We had green pancakes for St. Patricks day and there were lots of reminders about not pinching hard. Just a gentle, good natured pinch allowed around here. I made shepherd's pie for dinner because corned beef and cabbage is not a favorite. 
The kids got creative and made a country scene on the patio. They used grass and rocks to rub their temporary picture on the cement. 
We got to have the cousins and Grandma Crossley come and stay with us for a long weekend while Brittany and Baydon went on a trip. It was so fun having them. One night I read a book to Jack and Porter about a bakery. After suggesting we could make cookies the next day Porter got so excited. He immediately began planning how we could decorate the cookies. As I was leaving the room he said to Jack, "you come up with one more idea for the cookies, and I'll come up with one more idea." He then pointed to me and with all the seriousness that is required when planning the perfect cookie said, "You come up with an idea too." He did not forget about those cookies, so we made cookies. I'm so grateful I get to have time with my nieces and nephews and that my children are building such wonderful relationships with their cousins. 
The big kids are such great helpers. They went to the temple on Saturday and Grandma and I realized what a help they were when we took care of the eight littles by ourselves. 
Eliza loved helping Elsie. We had a special conversation about how we are given a gift to be able to bring children into the world and nurture them. It is the most important way we can be like Jesus Christ. 
Mealtimes and bedtimes are always chaotic, but big helpers like Miri made it easier. 
I thought these three boys waiting to go to church looked so handsome. Porter and Jack decided on the drive to church that I needed to pass every car we saw. Later Jack told his dad, "Uncle Tanner accelerates fast and Aunt Ashley just drives fast." Probably accurate...in my defense, the speed limit is so very slow here. Sacrament meeting with 10 kids and two adults went surprisingly well. We had toys and books being passed up from the row behind us, which we were grateful for. 
Vivi was "writing a letter to Aunt Heather". 
Vivi and Asa got shots and it was quite the experience. Vivi did great with the finger prick to test for lead. But after that was done all she could think about were the shots that were coming. Throughout her whole examination and Asa's she kept her hands clenched on her arms and kept talking about how she didn't need shots, didn't want shots, couldn't get shots. I sent a desperate text to Tanner but he missed the wrestling her on to the table and holding her down while she screamed. He showed up after all the shots were done. Convenient...just in time to comfort them after mom tortured them. Vivi stopped crying right after the jabs because she wanted to see Asa get his. He koala gripped me as I went to put him on the table but once realizing resistance was futile he held perfectly still. I think he thought if he just behaved instead of freaking out like his sister did then nobody would hurt him. Poor boy's heart about broke. Next time I'm letting Doctor Crossley hold them down. 
We went to a homeschool event and Asa wanted to be in the middle of everything the whole time. Even after getting beaned in the head with a basketball. He came to me to be comforted but was wriggling out of my arms to join the crowd in less than a minute. 
I was able to go to Nauvoo and see a family be sealed to their son. It was so special; I love any time I get in the temple. I also enjoyed giving rides to some awesome youth and the missionaries. The boys kept asking me if I was having a "mom minute" whenever I lectured them. They got more of a "mom hour" if we're being honest. I then watched my friends' little boy so they could do a session in the temple. He fell asleep within moments and slept the whole time which was a blessing so I could prepare for the 5th Sunday lesson Tanner and I were going to be teaching in church. 
Asa likes to apply marker on his lips, or the walls, or the couch, or table, or whatever is within reach. 
The cousins came up at the end of the month for Sunday dinner and the kids love their Uncle Baydon...he makes it so fun for them. 
So much wonderful time with family this month. Just the way I like it.